If I had to choose between throwing my iPhone into a burning fire vs. throwing my journal into the fire, the journal would win every single time.
The journalāitās one of those things that can be as useless as a piece of trash, or one of the most valuable things youāve ever ownedā¦
It all depends on what you fill that journalās pages with.
Today, Iām going to share some of my personal favorite journaling ideas. You can use them all, combine the ones you like, or pick the single journaling idea that most resonates with where youāre at in life right now.
Either way, journalingāwhen done regularlyāalmost always leads to fresh, new insights and ideas that can absolutely transform your life.
Iāve used all of these journaling ideas below at some point in my life. Either to get through tough times, to achieve my goals, maintain my sanity, or to foster my creative efforts (like fleshing out topic ideas for articles, podcasts or talks.)
Whichever one of these journaling ideas you decide to use, just promise me this: youāll actually use them. Because theyāll only work if you work themā¦
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1. Write Down Your Goals Each Day.
This is by far my favorite of all the journaling ideas on this list. Itās also a crucial part of my morning routine, and something Iāve been doing daily for over five years. Every morning, I wake up, grab my journal, and re-write my goals. This is a daily practice for meāIāll never miss a day for the rest of my life.
There are two reasons I decided to make this journaling idea a life-long habit:
- Journaling my goals reminds me what matters most to me right now (when you do this, youāll find that some of the goals you re-write will get more specific, while others will change or get forgotten about all together).
- Something magical happens when you regularly write down what you really, truly, genuinely want in lifeāyou actually start to get it. Great ideas hit you out of nowhere, and your mind urges you to take action on them until your goals become a reality. Itās a beautiful thing.
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- Every morning, before you begin your day, open up a fresh page in your journal and write down your top 10ā15 goals.
- The next day, wake up and do the same thing without looking at the previous day.
- Do this for 30 days ā wake up, re-write your goals, donāt look at the previous day ā and what youāll notice is that your goals will begin to clarify, transform, or change altogether. This is a good thing, because it helps you hone-in on what you really want in life.
2. Daily Log
The daily log is when you journal about your day-to-day: what you did, what you ate, who you saw and spoke with. Whatever you want. Itās a working way to log your life. The best part about this journaling habit is that you literally have a hand-written record of what youāve done on any given dayā¦ And believe me when I tell you that it comes in handy.
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- Get a journal thatās comfortable enough to carry with you wherever you go. (I use these.)
- As various things happen throughout your day, simply log them.
- You can jot stuff down, draw pictures, or record them as detailed notesāitās totally up to you. Since this is something youāll need to do daily, the important thing, is to keep the parameters loose enough that youāll actually do it.
3. Journal Three Things Youāre Grateful For
Here are three things Iām grateful for today:
- My family.
- Doing work that helps people improve their lives and achieve their goals.
- The green juice Iām sippinā on as I write this.
Easy peasy. You can be as detailed as you want, or as specific as you want. You can even keep the list going if you want. But be sure to include at least three things.
A few more things to keep in mindā¦
Gratitude journaling can be done anytime during the day, but Iād recommend doing it in the morning before beginning your workday. Why? Because genuine gratitude reverberates into the rest of your entire day, setting off a domino effect of optimism with which you can approach your work, your clients, your family, and everyone else you cross paths with.
On top of that, itās psychologically impossible to feel stressed and grateful at the same time. In other words, gratitude is a win whichever way you look at it.
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- Crack open your journal or planner.
- Write down three things youāre grateful for.
- Optional (but highly recommended): make your list in the morning.
- Also, if you already keep a journal, planner, or todo list of some kind, you can also just set aside some open space on one of those pages to write out the 3 things youāre grateful for. This way, you can look at it throughout the day as youāre checking stuff off your list.
4. Journaling for Problem Solving
Should you move to a bigger house? Should you quit your job? Whatās your lifeās purpose? These are examples of life challenges Iāve journaled about ā and found solutions to ā in the past.
The reason itās great to journal about your problems is because our brains tend to enlarge problems, making them seem bigger than they really are. But when we write our problems down, we minimize them.
Iām not saying youāre problems go away the moment you put pen to paper, but you do realize that your problems arenāt as daunting as they seem in your head once youāve gotten them down on paper ā and thatās a great first step, no?
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- Whenever youāre faced with a challenge of some kind, open up to fresh page in your journal, and write out your problem as a question at the top of the page.
- For example: āIāve been offered a promotion at work. Iāll be making more money, but my daily commute increases by an hour. Should I take the promotion? ā
- Now, start a list of potential solutions. Or, start a Pros and Cons list to help you decide what to do about the problem.
- For example: āI should take the promotion becauseā¦ā or āI shouldnāt take the promotion becauseā¦ā
- Unless you decide otherwise, this is for your eyes only; so donāt worry about being organized here. The idea is to get clear about what you want and find a solution to your problem(s).
5. Journaling for Stress
When weāre stressed out about something, itās usually because our thinking is scattered. Or because weāre really pissed off. Or because weāre being bombarded with more stuff to do or to think about than we can handle right now.
In my experience, journaling for stress seems to have a therapeutic affect. If Iām angry about something, or confused about how to approach a personal issue Iām wrestling with in my mind, I just take out my journal and start writing about it. In the beginning of these journalling sessions, I feel like a little kid, just scribbling out a bunch of incoherent run-on sentences peppered with F-bombsā¦
But then, once Iāve gotten the bullshit out of my system, something awesome happens: I start writing about my feelings. I start asking myself why Iām feeling the way I doā¦ I write it all down. I get it all out. And it helps. It genuinely helps.
The stress may not go away entirely, but itās a much better option than popping Prozac and drugging yourself up to cover it all up. In fact, journaling about the stuff that stresses you out helps you do something that drugs can never do: it allows you to uncover the root causes of your stress. And just like any of lifeās other major challenges, weāve got to start with the roots if we want to taste the fruits.
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- When you feel stressed, grab your journal and open to a fresh page
- Start writing down everything that you feel stressed or tense or anxious about. It helps to ask and answer the following questions during your journaling session:
- What am I stressed about?
- Why do I feel this way?
- What are some things I can do to alleviate the stress?
- There arenāt any time restraints or page targets hereāwrite for as long as you want, and fill as many pages as you want. The idea here, is to make you feel like youāre āgetting it all outā as if you were calling up an old friend to rant about something you feel angry about. Think of it like ranting to a friend, except inside your journal. Write it all down. Get it all out.
6. āWhatās the Best Thing That Happened Today?ā
At the end of the night, right before bed, grab your journal and write down the single best thing that happened to you today. And yes, youāve got to choose just ONE thing. The reason this specific question ā āWhatās the best thing that happened today?ā ā is so powerful is because it forces you to shift your focus onto something positive prior to dozing off to sleepā¦ And you donāt need to be a rocket scientist to know that itās better to go to sleep thinking about something positive rather than it is to go to sleep thinking about something negative.
Here are some examples of how Iāve put this journaling idea to work in my own life:
āWhatās the best thing that happened today?ā
- Example 1: āRecorded three audiobook summaries! Boom!ā
- Example 2: āWalked through the door, Nora ran up to me, gave me a huge hug and said, āI love you Dadaāā
- Example 3: āI read and responded to a really touching email sent by a a listener of the podcastā
Hereās how this journaling idea works:
- Open up to a fresh page in your journal, or, if possible, have a small journal dedicated specifically for this purpose to keep next to your bed (which is what I do).
- Every night, before bed, take out your journal and answer this question: āWhatās the best thing that happened today?ā Then simple begin to write out the single best thing that you experienced today. Thatās it.
- Your answer can be a single sentence or several sentences. But the key to doing this consistently is to keep it simple. Write it down and get your ass to bed.
Recap: 6 Journaling Ideas
- Write down your goals every day.
- Keep a daily log.
- Journal three things youāre grateful for every day.
- Journal your problems.
- Journal your stresses.
- Journal your answer to āWhatās the best thing that happened today?ā every night before bed.
You might be wondering whether I do all of these journaling exercises on a daily basis. The answer is No.
But there are a few that I do on a daily basis as of this writing: (#1) I write down my goals every day, (#2) I keep a daily log, and (#6) Every night before bed, I quickly jot down the single best thing that happened to me that day. These three, for me, are non-negotiable. The others, I do less frequently, or as necessary.
What you decide to do, is entirely up to you. But if youāve never journaled before, my suggestion would be to pick just one thing from the list, try it out, and then move on to the next. Once youāve tried them all, you can then decide which ones to keep in the mix, and which ones you could do without.
Whichever way you decide to go, just remember this:
If youāre lifeās worth living, then itās worth recording.
And one of the best ways to record it is with a journal.
Notes
- Book Mentioned: Goals! by Brian Tracy